How To Meet A Man In Your 60s [The Ultimate Guide]

You might feel like you’re too old to date. Or maybe you just don’t have the confidence to go out there anymore. But being involved in over 60 dates isn’t wrong. In fact, it can be rewarding and you may even find true love. 

The truth is, there isn’t much difference in meeting a man over 60 versus anyone else (see also “Can You Get Married After 60?“) — just keep doing what works for you.

How To Meet A Man In Your 60s [The Ultimate Guide]

And while a lot of people believe that dating apps are only for younger singles, they actually work just fine for both young and mature adults.

A Positive Move 

What happens when you start dating? You start getting happy hormones like dopamine, serotonin, and oxytocin. These hormones make us feel good and give us energy.

These are great reasons to start dating in our twilight years. 

Establish What You Want

When we’re young, we think we know exactly what we want out of life. We believe that once we reach a certain age, our needs change, too.

And while some people do indeed slow down and start thinking about settling into a comfortable routine, others continue to look for love well into middle age.

If you’ve been single for a while now, don’t worry—you’re not alone. There are plenty of other older singles out there just like you looking for companionship, romance, sex, friendship, and even family.

So how do you go about finding someone special in your 60s and beyond?

Start by asking yourself what you really want out of a relationship. Are you looking for someone to take walks with, watch movies with, eat dinner with, or maybe even spend the night?

Maybe you’d prefer to meet someone online because you work long hours. Whatever your preference, make sure you communicate clearly about what you’re looking for.

This way, you won’t waste each other’s time.

Once you’ve established what you want, you’ll need to decide whether you want to date casually or set up a serious relationship (see also “Does Dating Move Faster When You’re Older?“).

Casual dating is great for meeting people and getting to know them; however, casual relationships rarely lead to anything deeper.

On the other hand, setting up a serious relationship takes patience and persistence, but it can pay off handsomely.

Online Dating 

Online dating is among the top ways of meeting new people in today’s modern world. And there are now countless niche online dating sites catering specifically for people over 50 (see also “10 Tips For Dating In Your 50s You Need Right Now“). 

Your online profile is your opportunity to show off what makes you special—and it’s one of the most important parts of online dating.

Whether you’re looking for love or just meeting people in general, creating a great profile is key to finding success.

The best profiles include a few things:

• Details About Yourself

You should include your name, age, location, occupation, relationship status, and hobbies. If you’re single, make sure to mention your favorite activities and places where you like to go.

Include some photos of yourself and tell people why you’re interested in connecting with others.

• Interests & Preferences

This is the place to show off your passions. Tell people about your career, your family, your friends, and anything else that relates to you. Make sure to indicate whether you’d prefer casual dates or long-term relationships.

But what about those who don’t want to join one of the many dedicated sites out there? Or those who simply prefer meeting potential partners face to face? Well, there’s still hope.

The internet is full of sites where people meet up to go clubbing, play tennis or take part in other activities. So why not give it a try? You might even find love.

If any kind of interaction online seems a step too far when looking for love then don’t fear, there are plenty of other ways. Here are some tips to help you find Mr. Right when you turn 60.

Be Active

If you’re looking for a partner, staying active is key.

Whether you’re taking dance classes, joining a gym, volunteering, or simply walking around the neighborhood, getting moving every day helps improve your mood and makes you feel better overall as well as exposing you to lots of different people. 

Join Groups

Joining groups where you live and/or volunteer can provide opportunities to make friends. These connections could lead to lasting friendships that benefit your personal and romantic relationships.

It also helps keep you in a routine and give you something to focus on. 

Keep An Open Mind

As you get older, you may be more selective with whom you date. However, this doesn’t mean you should limit yourself to only one type of person. If you’ve been single for a long time, try to open up your mind to new possibilities.

Don’t Forget About Yourself

Don't Forget About Yourself

When you reach your 60s, you’ll likely start thinking about retirement and other things that will change once you stop working. If you are single, use the time to focus on making sure you stay healthy so you can enjoy life as you age.

It’s easy to forget about ourselves as we get older. Make sure you don’t neglect yourself by eating right, exercising regularly, and sleeping well.

Doing these things will allow you to look and feel good, which will increase your confidence and attractiveness to others.

Get Social

Social media has made it easier than ever before to connect with others online. So if you haven’t done so yet, take advantage of all the social networking sites available today.

You never know who might be interested in connecting with you (see also “How Do You Know If He’s Interested? [Over 50s Dating]“)!

Have Fun

Remember that fun is important at any age. Even though you may not be able to go out as often as you used to, having fun with friends and family still counts.

Focus On Quality Over Quantity

While it’s tempting to jump into a relationship without knowing anything about the person, quality matters more than quantity. It’s always best to choose someone who treats you well and respects you.

Stay Positive

Being positive will help you attract the kind of men you want. Being negative will cause you to attract the wrong types of guys.

Be Patient 

Don’t give up hope of finding someone special. Just because you’re getting older doesn’t mean you have to settle for less.

If you’re looking for Mr. Right, he isn’t going to come find you. Instead, you may need to be proactive. 

Find Someone Who Makes You Happy

Find Someone Who Makes You Happy

Don’t just settle for anyone. Look for a man who makes you happy and who you can talk to about anything.

Age Doesn’t Matter

Age really does matter when it comes to dating. But while it’s true that younger people are usually attracted to older ones, there are plenty of older men who are also attracted to women their own age.

Accept Yourself As You Are

As you grow older, you may become self-conscious about certain aspects of your appearance. If this happens, try not to dwell on it. Instead, focus on how you can improve those areas.

Keep Learning

Learning new things helps keep your mind sharp and active. When you sign up for training courses or get involved in a new project you rub shoulders with many different people and you never know who might lead.  

Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone

Dating outside of your comfort zone can open up opportunities for meeting new people. Try doing something different once in a while, you never know where it will lead and you will build confidence along the way.  


Dating in your 60s isn’t as difficult as you might think (see also “Is 60 Too Old To Find Love?“). It’s all about being open-minded and willing to try new things.

You never know where it will lead, so be prepared to have fun along the way!

Emily Baker