Lots of us find ourselves single again in our 70s after a long period of being in a partnership for a whole host of different reasons.
Whether it’s due to a divorce, a personal loss, or simply a parting of ways, these are just some of the reasons some of us find ourselves looking for love or companionship.
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Beginning the dating journey again can be frightening enough when you’re in your 30’s, but it’s far more intimidating when you’ve been used to one person for such a long time.
You might feel as if you’re completely out of touch with the dating scene.
Don’t fret however, as there are many people out there in the exact same situation, and are also wondering how to get started with their dating lives.
If you want to find out some helpful tips for dating in your 70s, (see also “Can A 70 Year Old Woman Find Love? The answer is Yes!“) keep reading, as we’ve compiled some useful ones below.
1. Dating Websites
One of the easiest ways to meet people when you’re in your 70s, is by using dating websites. There are some out there that have been specifically designed with the purpose of uniting senior people online.
One of the best things is that you can simply sift through the different profiles and find ones that you’re interested in connecting with.
Some of them may ask you to pay a monthly fee for the service, while others are completely free to use.
Take care when sharing personal information online, as well as sharing bank details. Make sure that the website you’re registering with is the real deal, and if you’re able to, have family or friends look over it with you.
After you’ve set up your account, some websites like eHarmony might ask you to complete a compatibility survey.
This survey takes all of your personality traits and interests into account, before showing you some other users that you might work well with and enjoy talking to.
2. Try And Have Fun
As we mentioned above, dating when you’re in your 70s may feel scary, especially if you’ve been out of the game for many years.
You shouldn’t let this hold you back however, because ultimately dating is meant to be fun.
Just remember that whoever you’re dating is probably just as nervous as you, and recognizing this can help you to feel much more comfortable.
Even if you don’t meet your perfect person right away, this shouldn’t put you off either, just see it as an enjoyable opportunity to get to know other people.
Everyone has something new that they can teach us about others or ourselves.
3. Don’t Worry About Sex
When it comes to sex, everybody is required to go at their own pace. If you’re seeing somebody new and they seem ready to take things to the next level but you’re not, make sure that you make them aware.
Having sex in your 70s with somebody new can be a pretty big deal. This is especially true if you’ve been accustomed to one particular partner for many years, and they’re the only ones who have seen you with your clothes off.
It will take some time to get comfortable with someone new, and taking small steps is better than jumping straight in. Remember that the right person won’t rush you, and will be willing to practice patience.
4. Try Matchmaking Agencies
Some of you might not be aware of the fact that there are organizations called ‘senior matchmaking agencies’.
These take out a lot of the hassle that you might find with online websites, where you’re required to create a profile and put up lots of details about yourself.
The matchmaker will take all of the trouble off of your hands, and these people normally have many years of experience with successfully setting people up.
They’ll ask you lots of different questions about your likes, dislikes, hobbies, personal traits, before selecting some potential candidates.
The most important question that they’ll ask you is what you’re looking for in a partner.
This is a great opportunity for you to discuss what kind of relationship you’re after, be that romantic, or more friendship based and all the nuances in between.
They will then find somebody who they think would be a good match for you. All of the details of your date will be arranged, including a good location for both parties involved.
The only thing to bear in mind is most matchmaking services charge a substantial amount.
Although they’re far easier than dating sites because you don’t need to do the matchmaking yourself, they are significantly more expensive.
5. Try Dating In Person
Why not do things the old fashioned way, and try meeting some eligible suitors in real life? This can be far more tricky than meeting somebody online, as many people of the same age might be paired up with somebody.
This doesn’t mean that you can’t try however, and have some fun with it at the same time. You could set aside one evening every single month, when you and a friend decide to go to a bar and meet new people.
Maybe you won’t find somebody you’ll want to date, but chances are you’ll still meet lots of interesting people.
You can combine this along with your internet dating for the very best chances of meeting someone.
6. Join A Class
Another great way to meet potential mates is by joining some classes that are related to your hobbies. Later life is a great time to get yourself out there, and finally take the push in trying something new.
Whether you’re into reading books, creating pottery, or choir singing, there are countless groups out there that will cater to your interests.
There are also classes out there that are specifically designed for senior citizens, so make sure to check out ads on the local paper to see if there’s anything which interests you.
7. Make Sure You’re Ready
Before you start dating again after the end of a long partnership, we recommend that you take some time out for yourself first, in order to reconnect with who you are.
Take time to pursue some interests that are exclusive to you.
There is no correct time to start dating again after a relationship has ended, you should simply go at your own pace.
The more in tune you are with yourself, the more attractive you will appear to potential partners too, so keep this in mind.
Final Thoughts
To sum up, there are lots of different ways of meeting potential partners when you’re in your 70’s.
Although getting back out there after the end of a long partnership may seem scary, you will be okay, and everyone is nervous.
Don’t take things too seriously, and if you don’t meet the right person straight away, don’t fret, as dating should be something fun and enjoyable, and a chance to meet a variety of people.
Perhaps this is why, when I was thrown into the adult dating pool, I was completely underwhelmed. Everyone was either looking for hookups or professing love only to ghost me a few weeks later.
After a few years on the apps (much too long), I gave up. I deleted the apps and pondered getting a cat.
That’s when I met my now-husband, Tom.
Tom and I have now been together for four years and our combined experience gave me the idea to start this website, looking into all things love-related.
I would have loved a website like this in my 20s, to let me know that I wasn’t alone in the sea of terrible dates. So, I hope that my painful experiences and advice bring you some comfort, and maybe even laughter.
Remember that there is someone out there for you - you just have to struggle through the time-wasters to find them.
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